Tue. Sep 21st, 2021


Hello everyone, I’m Oluwatimileyin by name…

There’s this babe I’ve been crushing on for years, her picture is attached to this article.
Her mum’s shop was right beside my boss’s office. I always admire her everyday, every time I set my eyes on her.
That was 2018, I guess… I admire her and my heart desires her but I’m just a stupid shy guy, I couldn’t summon the courage to walk up to her to start up a conversation not to talk of telling her how I feel. All I do is greet her casually with inaudible voice and my agama lizard head (lol).

My boss changes his location 2019, so I didn’t see her some then but luckily for me, I saw her picture on a friend’s WhatsApp status and I got her number from the person around 2020 Dec ending….
I messaged her, introduced myself and she welcomed me. The idiot me still can’t start up a meaningful conversation with her so I only view her status and comment once in a while.
Whenever I chat her, our conversations was always normal greeting, (Good morning, how’re you, how was your day).
Some days ago, she requested for a WhatsApp voice call on her status and I asked if I can call, she said okay.. I even told her I’m a boring soul and she said we’ll see how it goes…
I called her and we talked for hours, like 2hrs or more. She’s fun to be with though. 2days after, she requested for WhatsApp call again and I called her. And this time we talked as if we’ve known each other for years, we talked for 5hrs before we decided to end the call. During the conversation, I told her I like her and I’ll want use to date but she said she’s not interested in any relationship now.
It’s not like she’s not interested in any relationship but I think she’s scared cos it seems she’s never been in a perfect relationship… She said her longest relationship was 10months.

TBH, I love this girl, and I’ve been trying to tell her how I feel but she’s just rejecting me… or maybe she’s rejecting me because I’m a broke nigga. I don’t know what to do, I’m confused.
All I think about now is Favour, nothing else.

Can someone please help plead on my behalf in the comment section below, she will surely view this article.

I’ll be the happiest guy on heart if she accept me.



13 thoughts on “I Love Her But She Doesn’t Want To Date Me Because I’m Broke”
  1. Favour, if you’re single, you can give the guy a chance. If he’s broke, you can support him with some ideas and God will help you both

  2. Alaye, go find work and leave her alone joor, if she no date yo, no be the end dis babes no dey date broke nigger

  3. My nigg, love is a beautiful thing, and this girl is beautiful too, I hope she accepts tho may Jah be with una

  4. And I actually know this girl personally, favour, baddest, my half picture snapping friend, please consider the boy na

  5. Wetin man go do??? For this guy to contact a blogger tonpost an article like this, e no easy ooo….
    Seems this guy is serious

  6. Favour, it is good to act ‘hard to get’ but if a guy could come upto this level to express his feelings, I sense a true love and you need to understand this.

    Don’t let this guy learn from too many people to convince you, that may be bad for you if you eventually considered him. Some people will teach him how to retaliate the confusions you’ve put him through.

    Young man, be confident enough to express yourself, if it is difficult for you to confront a woman. It will may be more difficult to lead family and take decisions in life.

    To all ladies, if a guy troubles you so much, find someone (a man) you trust to evaluate him and pray to God to show u the right part. A man who loves u will not force to have s*x with you. When you say No, he will always understand.

    Also, I will advice you not to be a secret lover, tell ur brother or sister about ur lover so that he/she can keep an eye on him/her, give you advice and counsel you on ur relationship.

    I wish you all a happy relationship.

    -Hammed Olayinka
    Writer: Tutking.com

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